Who ever said toys aren’t for men was so wrong! There appears to be a stigma around male- directed sex toys and we at Mintt absolutely do not stand for it and neither should you. Your pleasure is our priority. Whether it is something you’ve considered, you’re curious to try or you’re a toy connoisseur we have ways to help you achieving the pleasure and orgasms your heart desires.
You deserve the best and Mintt can help you find it. You are one step closer to deep, tingling and satisfying sensations.
Toys for solo stimulation
The beauty of Fleshlights is that you can choose how realistic you want them to be. The more realistic fleshlights are designed to mimic the intense and satisfying stimulation of intercourse in visual and sensory ways. But some of us don’t need or want that visual and this is where strokers come in. They offer the same intense sensations without trying to replicate the appearance of the real thing.
Both are used by placing the toy over the penis and sliding it up and down the shaft at whatever speed you desire. The internal ribbing and natural glide of these toys target every nerve they touch in a way your hand could never compete with. Strokers add a much-needed new dimension to solo play for mind blowing masturbation. They are specially designed for silky stimulation and let you pick the pace. If that doesn’t excite you already, there’s more.
You can also add vibrations. Please don’t be discouraged and think that this feature is reserved for women because it absolutely isn’t. Vibration can be extremely pleasurable for anyone and can stimulate internal nerve endings. Definitely worth trying.
Strokers don’t have to be reserved for solo play, they are fantastic when paired with some flavoured lube and a generous partner if you get what I’m saying. You can interchange the use of the toy with oral or even combine the two. Whilst the toy is stimulating the shaft, the partner can use their tongue and lips to tease the tip, balls and anywhere else you may desire.
Here is a couple of our suggestions for strokers and fleshlights at Mintt but please take a look for yourself as there are options for colour, style, depth and tightness. If you would like more advice in these areas or others, please get in touch with my email below.
The Sono no.23 Stroker Transparent Male Masturbator has a firm but comfortable grip, a tighter squeeze from your hand can make it firmer if desired. This simple, flexible toy has a ribbed structure canal and makes a perfect first toy or gift.
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Sono No.23 Stroker Black Male Masturbator
£20.99
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Sono No.23 Stroker Transparent Male Masturbator
£20.99
The Fleshlight Go Lady Stamina Training Unit from the original Fleshlight brand can be used for so much more than training. This toy is well renowned for its ability to please. The unique internal ribbing is fantastic for toe tingling sensations and the cup design helps with mess, discretion and clean up.
Fleshlight Go Lady Stamina Training Unit
£62.99
I just love the sleek and sophisticated design of the Pipedream Extreme Elite Vibrating Blowjob Power Pump. This toy is said to give you the 'best blowjob of your life' with an incredibly realistic intermittent suction that provides a life like milking sensation. It is compact, powerful, pulsating and fits easily in the palm of your hand.
Pipedream Extreme Elite Vibrating Blowjob Power Pump
£83.99
With so much to choose from the possibilities are endless. Find yourself your perfect match, sit back, and enjoy the ride again and again. Don’t forget to review any purchases for future discounts and to help others find the best toys for them.
Bonus tip
It must be said Minties that lubricant will make or break this experience. Rubbing dry skin repeatedly is not enjoyable for anyone, therefore lube is a must. It will help to get you started and will make masturbation a million times more enjoyable.
Trust me. You can get simple water-based lube, this will feel the most natural or you can look for some slightly different ones. Click here to look at my lube guide.
Toys for playing together
I have heard it said that anal is for everyone, and the truth is it can be if you want it to be. This blog goes out to those keen to explore prostate play.
What is the prostate?
The prostate, affectionately known as the p-spot, is a small muscular gland surrounded by super sensitive nerve endings, found on the wall of the rectum. It is positioned in between the rectum and the penis and can be stimulated internally and externally.
Who has it?
Those that have them are cisgender men and those assigned male at birth, apologies everyone else! Even if you don’t have a prostate to play with, it can be really fun helping somebody else explore theirs.
How does it feel?
Would you be surprised if I said that stimulating the prostate alone is enough to reach orgasm? This often-untapped area has so much potential and can cause mind blowing orgasms.
It may take some time to figure out what’s best for you and it is something we definitely recommend not rushing into. Anal penetration can be uncomfortable if not worked up to gradually. Enjoy the process of exploring and trying different things and you will have a much more successful time than if you take things too quickly.
P- spot orgasms are said to be more intense and felt all through the body. Sounds good right? You might be able to imagine that the dual stimulation of a p- spot and a penile orgasm would be other worldly.
Where do I start?
Some people have reservations when it comes to anal play as they are worried about poo coming out. Understand that this is normal, you’re a human and that is just what your body does, it’s okay if that happens. To reduce the risk, have a shower and a good clean beforehand. You can use an anal- douche which will completely clean the area for peace of mind but that is not essential,
Lube up!
There is nothing worse than the friction of trying to push a toy or finger into an area without lubricant. Since there is no natural lubrication produced anally you can’t get wet enough to create a silky glide. Lube is great for this as it’s moisturising, it can be used in any dry areas, and can be reapplied ad much as necessary.
Silicone lube is a great choice for anal. The silicone stops it from sinking into the skin and it lasts longer than your typical water-based lube. This is important for prolonged anal play as your bodies’ natural lubricant isn’t produced in this area. *Check the labels if you have any allergies *.
Fist It Hybrid Water And Silicone Lube 500ml
£48.99
Uberlube Silicone Lubricant 100mls
£28.99
Uberlube Silicone Lubricant 50mls
£18.99
S8 Premium Silicone Lube 50ml
£9.99
Looking to experiment with prostate toys? Mintt offers butt plugs of various sizes, some with wonderful rumbly vibrations, which are perfect for a hands-free experience. As well as dildos/ vibrators perfect if you’re experimenting with motion. No matter your choice, it is crucial that any toy you use anally has a flared base, which will look something like this.
Anal Fantasy Elite Collection Small Weighted Silicone Butt Plug
£21.99
The silicone surface of the Anal Fantasy butt plug is firm but flexible and perfect for beginners. The flared base keeps the toy in position, and it’s contoured in, and out shape makes it comfortable for the user. You should still be able to sit comfortably whilst using a butt plug, if an anal toy is a straight up and down in shape this will be uncomfortable so opt for one that is slimmer round the edges once inserted.
If you’re specifically aiming to target the prostate, a toy with a degree of curvature can be the key to hitting all the right spots.
Zero Tolerance The Rocker Purple P Spot Vibe
£76.99
This prostate stimulator has similar contouring to the previous one, but with a couple of added features to really spice things up! This toy bends flawlessly to you, making it perfect for hitting the prostate every time. With two motors, this toy boasts intense stimulation over a wide surface area. The bottom part doubles as a handle and an external stimulator for the scrotum/ testicles, the ridges adding to the tantalising sensations. It comes with a wireless remote for hands free or partner play and can be fully submerged in water. So many possibilities!
Its fab having a toy that can do all of the things but take the time first to think about the features/ qualities important to you, then after considering the fun extra things you’d be interested in playing with. This will help to prevent you getting overwhelmed with choice and with finding a toy guaranteed to blow your mind. As always send over any questions you may have. Bye for now Minties!
Takeaway point- if ever using a toy take your time to lube up, warm up and stimulate the rectum before attempting insertion, this will make insertion much more pleasurable.